Have you ever wondered why some people seem to always have success come easy for them and others do not? How do you develop self-discipline with fervor? Well, I wanted to know what it was that they were doing and I wasn’t! I researched the most successful people on the web and came to the conclusion that it was a matter of self-discipline, breaking bad habits, taking action and trusting the process along the way. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ft_DXwgUXB0&list It was when I discovered what I really wanted for my life, my fervor (passion) became intense. There were so many things that I wanted to accomplish and I wasn’t about to let anything stand in my way. It was then when I realized why in the hell (excuse my pun) did I wait so long to do this?

Can I Still Do This?

I wondered if it was still possible and only if I would of opened up my eyes sooner. I pondered and had several options to choose from. Did I just want to be average and live from day to day not being content? Or, did I want to make a difference in my life and others and have impact on those who knew me? What do you think was the answer? You guessed it, to make a difference in the world and be a positive influence for others to see and follow.

I thought many times, what If I fail and become an embarrassment? I would not know unless I really wholeheartedly tried. That’s the thing, so many successful people failed numerous times, but they never gave up! Never. They had many no’s and doors shut in their faces, but they kept on going because they were determined. With that determination, eventually came the little successes, more yes’s and open doors of opportunity.

How to develop self-discipline with fervor

These are my top 10 strategies that have helped me become the person that I am today. I AM….

1. Wake up being grateful-I can’t stress enough how important this is. All Successful achievers have practiced this!
2. Have a clean mind-Your mindset is powerful and what you put it in matters. Your mind is connected to your heart and gut so keep it clean.
3. Know your weaknesses/temptations and notice the triggers that try to sway you. If it sways you, it’s the wrong way!
4. If you feel intense about something in a good way, go with it and don’t ignore it. It wants to help and improve you.
5. Set realistic goals and build on them. Eventually you will be check boxing them off one by one.
6. Eat healthy- you are what you eat. Eating healthy will give you energy to tackle the day with solitude and vigor.
7. Don’t be discouraged and never give up! Things take time, trust the process and keep going.
8. Stay focused and keep away from distractions. When your working, try to refrain from browsing social media, unless it’s important! Put the phone down ladies and gents.
9. Don’t worry about your competitors, their is plenty of success to go around for everyone. This should be the least of your worries!
10. Pray, Pray and Pray. Your higher power hears you and your time will come if you just believe. Mark 11:24 Therefore I tell you, whatever you ask for in prayer, believe that you have received it, and it will be yours.

You Have Come A Long Way Darling!

Okay, so have I always been like this? Well, I would be lying if I told you yes. The answer is no! After many years of soul searching and experiences, this is where it led me. There are no regrets because I got taught many lessons along my journey and I loved myself enough to make a change. One thing I do have to say is I believe in supporting other like minded woman. I don’t believe in jealousy because we all have something to bring to the table. I am more then happy to share my ideas and secrets. All you have to do is ask, and I will reciprocate with joy and excitement because what I’m doing thus so far is working for me, and I’m grateful and blessed. In the end, how to develop self-discipline with fervor became so easy for me. All you have to do is be your beautiful authentic self darling, because you are powerful.