My Top 8 Secrets Of Getting People To Like You
It’s really simple and not rocket science to get people to genuinely like you for who you are. In this post, I will share my top 8 secrets of what it takes to get people to like you. Here are the techniques I use when I meet someone for the first time and therefore after. In no particular order:
- I smile and give them my full undivided attention, I let them speak about themselves first, unless I am asked about my interests. You see, people like talking about themselves and if you just listen wholeheartedly, this will enable them to feel good about themselves and you were the person to listen without interruption.
- When speaking to someone, say their name and look them straight in the eyes and genuinely mean what you are saying with conviction. Don’t look around or get distracted. This will make it seem like you are fake and not meaning what you are saying or disinterested in their company.
- Also, when speaking and starting a conversation I have a tendency of smiling as I speak. This gives the other person self-worth because they feel your enjoying their company.
- Ask them questions about themselves-be inquisitive (curious) This will let them talk more about themselves and their interests. I tend to be an inquisitive person when meeting someone for the first time.
- Find something you like about them physically or mentally and then give a nice compliment and mean it. Be lavish in your praise.
- Try to add value to them in any way you can. It could be by giving them some advice or lending a helping hand with something OR even buying them lunch or dinner. Be generous.
- Be kind and respectful, let them lead the way. When they want to be in charge, let them be the leader.
- Leave them better then when you met them. They will remember how you made them feel. This is very important. We all want to be accepted and appreciated and when we can lift one another up and do it with love….that surpasses them all!
I hope you got value out of my top 8 secrets of getting people to like you. After a while, you will learn to do these naturally. It is when you act upon it with love and expect nothing in return, is when you will attract people to you. Pure love.
How To Develop Self-Discipline With Fervor
Have you ever wondered why some people seem to always have success come easy for them and others do not? How do you develop self-discipline with fervor? Well, I wanted to know what it was that they were doing and I wasn’t! I researched the most successful people on the web and came to the conclusion that it was a matter of self-discipline, breaking bad habits, taking action and trusting the process along the way. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ft_DXwgUXB0&list It was when I discovered what I really wanted for my life, my fervor (passion) became intense. There were so many things that I wanted to accomplish and I wasn’t about to let anything stand in my way. It was then when I realized why in the hell (excuse my pun) did I wait so long to do this?
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I wondered if it was still possible and only if I would of opened up my eyes sooner. I pondered and had several options to choose from. Did I just want to be average and live from day to day not being content? Or, did I want to make a difference in my life and others and have impact on those who knew me? What do you think was the answer? You guessed it, to make a difference in the world and be a positive influence for others to see and follow.
I thought many times, what If I fail and become an embarrassment? I would not know unless I really wholeheartedly tried. That’s the thing, so many successful people failed numerous times, but they never gave up! Never. They had many no’s and doors shut in their faces, but they kept on going because they were determined. With that determination, eventually came the little successes, more yes’s and open doors of opportunity.
How to develop self-discipline with fervor
These are my top 10 strategies that have helped me become the person that I am today. I AM….
- Wake up being grateful-I can’t stress enough how important this is. All Successful achievers have practiced this!
- Have a clean mind-Your mindset is powerful and what you put it in matters. Your mind is connected to your heart and gut so keep it clean.
- Know your weaknesses/temptations and notice the triggers that try to sway you. If it sways you, it’s the wrong way!
- If you feel intense about something in a good way, go with it and don’t ignore it. It wants to help and improve you.
- Set realistic goals and build on them. Eventually you will be check boxing them off one by one.
- Eat healthy- you are what you eat. Eating healthy will give you energy to tackle the day with solitude and vigor.
- Don’t be discouraged and never give up! Things take time, trust the process and keep going.
- Stay focused and keep away from distractions. When your working, try to refrain from browsing social media, unless it’s important! Put the phone down ladies and gents.
- Don’t worry about your competitors, their is plenty of success to go around for everyone. This should be the least of your worries!
- Pray, Pray and Pray. Your higher power hears you and your time will come if you just believe. Mark 11:24 Therefore I tell you, whatever you ask for in prayer, believe that you have received it, and it will be yours.
You Have Come A Long Way Darling!
Okay, so have I always been like this? Well, I would be lying if I told you yes. The answer is no! After many years of soul searching and experiences, this is where it led me. There are no regrets because I got taught many lessons along my journey and I loved myself enough to make a change. One thing I do have to say is I believe in supporting other like minded woman. I don’t believe in jealousy because we all have something to bring to the table. I am more then happy to share my ideas and secrets. All you have to do is ask, and I will reciprocate with joy and excitement because what I’m doing thus so far is working for me, and I’m grateful and blessed. In the end, how to develop self-discipline with fervor became so easy for me. All you have to do is be your beautiful authentic self darling, because you are powerful.
